The real-life Materialists: meet the matchmakers helping billionaires find love

Hayley Bystram - Founder of Matchmaking Agency Bowes-Lyon Partnership

In a recent feature, Tatler explores the secretive world of high-end matchmaking featured in the Materialists film, following elite cupid figures as they seek out love for society’s wealthiest clients - crafting introductions from yoga studios to Oxbridge galas by helicopter, all for tens of thousands in fees.

Notably, Bowes‑Lyon Partnership is spotlighted through our founder, Hayley Bystram, who leads a team of eight matchmakers from London and Surrey. With around 1,000 matches and 70 client weddings to their name, Hayley underscores that while love cannot be guaranteed, her bespoke, discreet service significantly raises the odds of meeting like‑minded partners - particularly for high‑profile professionals seeking privacy and authenticity.

Read the full article in Tatler

Hayley Bystram

Managing Director and Founder

With over 20 years in the relationship industry, Hayley founded Bowes-Lyon Partnership to offer a truly personalised service to busy and successful individuals. She oversees both the London and Surrey offices and guides clients throughout their matchmaking journey, setting the standard for the agency’s thoughtful and high-touch approach.

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